PinnedMember-onlyObvious to you. Amazing to othersI’m a fan of Derek Sivers. Go to Youtube and look up Obvious to you. Amazing to others. He is a genius. You will find a short, to-the-point animated video of an idea. A great idea. You don’t know how your writing on Medium and elsewhere will affect your reader…Inspiration2 min readInspiration2 min read
May 3Member-onlyDear Triune GodFrom the moment I felt your presence, I started learning about your love for me. I knew one thing was real, you are love. Bigger, better than anything I’ve ever known. As our relationship grew, I gave you my all even in those dark places — mind, body, spirit, and…God2 min readGod2 min read
Sep 16, 2022Member-onlyDating Advice for MenIn the short read on dating, — “Christian Dating Advice for Men” — there are many insights and powerful wisdom for anyone to follow. So, I have decided to share some of the book briefly here on Medium. This is part one of five. Hear me out ladies and gents…Dating3 min readDating3 min read
Aug 10, 2022Member-onlyI met a 63-year-old man in the park, and not just any manCome to find out; he was me. I had a conversation with a ten-year-older version of myself. It was the perfect day to be in the park. The day was clear and sunny, the grass was green, and the sky was a deep blue. A smooth, consistent Aruba-type breeze blew about the day. As I was walking, greeting all I passed with brief warm smiles, I noticed…Self Improvement3 min readSelf Improvement3 min read
Jul 6, 2022Member-onlyHumilityYou think you know; you have no idea To be in the spirit of submission, humility is the key. I often go throughout my day feeling like I’m making everything happen. Not true. I sometimes feel like I’m in control. I’m not. We’re not. …Evolution2 min readEvolution2 min read
Jun 27, 2022Member-onlyStop Making ExcusesI remember a time when all I did was make excuses. I can’t reach my dreams because of x. I can’t get out of debt because of y. I’ve learned that excuses are a victim mindset. We don’t want that. A spirit that overcomes is what we want. Never give…Mindfulness1 min readMindfulness1 min read
Jun 11, 2022Member-onlyThe Search For the Perfect Cheesesteak Is OverKindly see Part One of this journey here https://medium.com/coffee-times/searching-for-the-perfect-cheese-steak-or-hoagie-8ad037696a7 By the grace of God, my wife and I made it back home safe and sound. Graduation success. The Philadelphia Museum of Arts steps jogged, not ran, and cheesesteaks were consumed. I met my wife’s close friends and family, whom she…Food2 min readFood2 min read
Published inHello, Love·Jun 7, 2022Member-onlyThe Devoted ManA 5 step guide taking you from dating apps to marriage I’m a 53 years old African American man. I have been through challenging times when it comes to dating. Following life-giving principles turned it around for me. The success I discovered I am inspired to share. Fellas, let us try some new ways of dating. …Dating6 min readDating6 min read
Jun 5, 2022Member-onlySearching for the Perfect Cheese Steak or HoagieMy wife and I are planning a trip to Philly this upcoming week. We will support the high school graduation of the son of one of her close friends. While this will be my first official trip to the city of brotherly love, my wife has lived there previously. The buzz around the trip We…Coffee Times Movement2 min readCoffee Times Movement2 min read
May 23, 2022Member-onlyCan you see in the dark? Clarity assists your sight.I recently drove to Niagra Falls for a day trip. My wife and I hooked our 600-pound camper on the back of our car, and off we went. Three and half hour drive, no problem. The trip was a blast. To zip line is to live. …Spirituality2 min readSpirituality2 min read